In the words of the movie ‘3 Idiots,’ I’d like to quote, “Although I am the writer here, the words are all my mother’s.” This blog aims to offer authentic, real-world, no-bias, and open-minded snippets from our fun banter sessions, steering clear of professional jargon and forced guidance. The sole goal is to inspire that 1% change. So, join me for a tour of what our ‘better place to live in’ stands for.
A humble disclaimer: This blog has been a long time coming, waiting for the perfect moment to share. And what better occasion than Mother’s Day to reflect on the journey of aligning and connecting the dots of my hormonal and social growth as a girl, starting from childhood? And why not invite you all to be a part of my ‘mom’s morning brew’ sessions as well?
As a writer, I could fill pages with my thoughts, but I’ll stick to concise snippets. A summarized version of 2-3 minutes will give you a better overview is what I feel. Let’s dive in and explore the essence of our conversations!
Too scared to break the bubble of aesthetics?
In our conversations, I often find myself urging my mother to conform to certain social media norms, emphasizing the importance of projecting a perfect image to the world.
Yet, her response always challenges my perspective. “Why is your generation such a show-off?” she’d ask, questioning the obsession with appearances and trends. “Does it truly matter if I carry a two-thousand rupees handbag or a ten-thousand one?” she’d further inquire, highlighting the superficiality that often drives our online personas.
And when I suggest using filters on her WhatsApp and Instagram stories, she’d question the need for altering reality.
Her words resonate deeply because I realize I’ve never truly questioned these practices myself; I simply followed what everyone else was doing.
Her reminder, “It’s my life, and I hold 100% equity in deciding how I want to project it,” is a powerful assertion of individual autonomy. It prompts me to rethink the value of authenticity and genuine self-expression in a world consumed by digital appearances.
So, why not inspire others by sharing the real, raw moments that shape us? Let’s ditch the filters and show the world the true colors of our lives.
Together, we can redefine what it means to be authentic and create a digital space that’s not just aesthetically pleasing, but also genuinely inspiring. Let’s make our mark and show the world what Gen Z is truly capable of!
Changing generational grace, Unchanged respect
My mother being a millennial herself, always intended to contribute to family income as well, but couldn’t find the opportunity to work amidst nurturing our home and raising us (me and my brother) as kids graciously.
Well, sacrificing wouldn’t be the right word because she did it with all her heart but a long-term regret in her still prevails. Not because she is deprived of resources but desires respect and financial independence.
Picture this: it’s a bright and bustling morning, and my mother and I are having a breakfast conversation that takes an unexpected turn. We find ourselves diving into a thought-provoking topic that hits close to home – quite literally.
It turns out that within the cozy confines of our kitchens, there’s a peculiar tendency to celebrate women who earn while unintentionally downplaying the incredible contributions of homemakers. Who would have thought that the biggest challenge to gender equality could be lurking right at our kitchen tables?
So, welcoming you all to the era where home is the new battleground for respect, and the paycheck is your sword!
Gen Z women, ever noticed how the family dynamics flip when it comes to who brings home the dough? It’s like a scene straight out of a quirky sitcom—where earning more not only fills your bank account but also amps up your voice at the dinner table.
Suddenly, your opinions are served with an extra side of credibility! Right?
But hey, let’s hit pause on this hilarious scenario for a second.
In all seriousness, this societal quirk has a lasting impact on how women lead their lives. It’s not just about the money; it’s about the validation and recognition that come with it. So here’s to break down these unconventional norms, empowering every woman to own her voice and choices, regardless of the digits in her paycheck.
Because in the end, it’s not about how much you earn, but how loudly you speak your truth!
The Compromise Code: Gen Z’s Answer to Financial Freedom Fallacies
My mother whole-heartedly applauds the remarkable shift in the societal norms in terms of equality and empowerment that has been the source of upliftment to women across the globe. With great generational changes, come unsolicited narratives that hold the power to direct the perspective of the majority into a different path.
The everyday banter with my mom often circles back to the topic of “Financial Freedom drama,” a phrase that strikes a chord within my Gen Z soul and stirs my inner feminist. It’s like a mini soap opera every day!
I couldn’t help but question her, “What’s with the drama? Isn’t it crucial for women of my age to grasp the concept of financial freedom? How can we conquer the world with our ideas and thoughts when women like you are holding us back?”
Her reply was a total mic-drop moment. She painted this beautiful picture of the delicate balance between theoretical ideals and real-world pragmatism. “Believe me, I understand the importance of women’s independence more than anyone,” she shared.
“But,” she continued, “being independent doesn’t mean you have to do everything alone, making it all about your own dreams and power.”
It got me thinking about how Gen Z sometimes gets trapped in this ego-fueled quest for financial freedom, thinking it means going it alone and leaving everyone else in the dust.
“That’s not the way life works, honey,” she said with a knowing smile. “Gen Z seems to have forgotten the art of compromise,” she teased, with a sigh that spoke volumes.
Now, that you got the snippets, picture the Gen Z hustle like a fast-paced game where compromise seems like an old-school rule they’d rather skip.
In their pursuit of financial freedom, it’s easy to get caught up in a self-centered mindset, believing they can go it alone without needing anyone else.
But here’s the twist: real success, both personally and professionally, isn’t a solo act. It’s about those compromising moments, the adjustments we make, that truly build sustainable relationships.
Learning independence is vital, sure, but mastering the art of compromise? That’s the secret sauce that takes you from good to great.
Think of it as a skill set, right up there with the technical know-how. So, Gen Z, let’s embrace the power of compromise—it’s not just a game-changer; it’s the key to unlocking a world of lasting connections and achievements!
A Polite Reminder:
We’re all unique products of our experiences, upbringing, and perspectives. Each new adventure in life adds another layer to our understanding and shapes how we see the world. So it’s absolutely fine if some conversation didn’t resonate with your mindset.
This blog isn’t about saying everyone’s mother-daughter chats should mirror mine—it’s about showcasing that these conversations can be more than just surface-level topics like shopping or dinner plans. They can be profound moments of self-reflection and growth.
I encourage you all to hit the pause button on your busy days and have these meaningful discussions with your mother too. Why pay heavily for personal development courses when you have a life coach and mentor right beside you?
Let’s embrace these opportunities for connection and wisdom, making every chat with Mom a treasure trove of insight and growth.
PS – As I penned down this blog, numerous topics were swirling in my mind, begging to be explored. However, I realized that putting everything in the same platter doesn’t end up digesting well. . So, I’ve decided to save some of these delightful banter topics for future reads. Stay tuned for more engaging discussions and insights!
You have highlighted an ignored opportunity for everyone to make meaningful conversations at home.
Thankyou for reading the blog and acknowledging this particular fact. 🙂